In Her Own Words
About Her
I am used to carry my partner on my hands and that will be what you get if I forget myself. Unfortunately it also means that I have dated a lot of ego's instead of souls and I have come to realize you cannot build something long term with an ego.
I like to see people strive to be the best version of themselves.
About Her Ideal Match
I hope to meet someone with good morals, someone who is not afraid of life.
Someone who can understand the power of unconditional love, who is centered and at peace with who they are and where they are going.
Someone who can accept someone who thinks different and does different with sometimes surprising results.
If you have a dark sense of humor that will be a plus.
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
45 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
163cm (5' 4.2") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Trying to Quit | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
South Africa; Belgium; France; Germany; Netherlands | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
33 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
154cm (5' 0.6") - 170cm (5' 6.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Greying; Grey | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Quiet; Sarcastic; Shy |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humour |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Heavy Metal; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Cult Classics; Drama; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Meditation; Painting; Reading; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Extreme sports; Field Hockey; Golf; Hiking; Motorsport; Pool; Rock climbing; Skiing; Snooker; Snorkeling; Soccer; Squash; Swimming; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Fast food; French; German; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Fish |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Showing affection in public |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Eco home in the bush |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using Queerdating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |

