In Her Own Words
About Her
Creative, interesting, kind and straight-talking, with a curious mind, a good sense of humour and a love of music. I enjoy analysing things, exploring ideas, keeping up with current affairs and understanding what makes people tick. Honest and patient, I believe in saying what I mean and meaning what I say. I believe life is a continuous learning curve, and there's always room to grow, laugh and discover something new.
I'm at a stage in life where I'm ready to settle down with the right woman. Not looking for perfection, just a genuine connection, mutual respect, laughter, affection and two people who choose each other every day.
About Her Ideal Match
I'm drawn to an intelligent woman with a curious mind, a wicked sense of humour and the self-awareness to recognise her own weaknesses and do the work to grow. Someone who communicates openly, values honesty, and has the courage to be vulnerable.
Gentle, kind, patient and confident, with a calm, grounded nature and a peaceful presence. Someone who knows herself, takes responsibility for her actions, and understands that emotional maturity is just as attractive as intelligence.
Above all, I'm looking for a genuine connection between two women who can laugh together, challenge each other, grow together and feel safe being entirely themselves. Self-awareness, emotional intelligence and the willingness to keep growing are non-negotiable.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa |
Location: |
Southern Peninsula, Cape Town, South Africa |
Gender: |
Female |
Age: |
65 |
Star Sign: |
Leo |
Height: |
179cm (5' 10.5") |
Body Type: |
Full figured |
Looks: |
Average |
Hair Colour: |
Greying |
Eye Colour: |
Green |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans |
Other Languages: |
English |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
Relationship Status: |
Single |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term |
Have Children: |
No |
Want Children: |
No |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things |
Smoking: |
Occasional |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker |
Education: |
Associates degree |
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | |
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age Range: |
50 - 66 | |
Star Sign: |
Any | |
Height: |
156cm (5' 1.4") - 178cm (5' 10.1") | |
Body Type: |
Any | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Any | |
Eye Colour: |
Any | |
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | |
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | |
Other Languages: |
Any | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Have Children: |
Any | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Any | |
Smoking: |
Any | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | |
Occupation: |
Any | |
Income: |
Enough |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Wild |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Funny; Intelligent; Outspoken; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Natural (I only wear natural fabrics) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Investing; Making Music; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Birdwatching; Chess; Cricket; Fishing; Golf; Pool; Rugby; Snooker; Snorkeling; Soccer; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at Work: |
I should have a bed in my office |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Queerdating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |