In Her Own Words
About Her
I'm a loyal, outgoing woman with a sharp sense of humour, a practical mind and a slightly geeky side. I work in finance, love solving problems and can happily spend a weekend creating an Excel project that is probably far more complicated than it needs to be! 📊 My AI co-pilot, Sheldon, and my Miniature Schnauzer and cat are usually involved in some way. 🐾
I enjoy genuine conversations, good banter and people who are comfortable being themselves. I'm independent, straightforward and have my own quirks, and I appreciate someone who embraces those rather than trying to change them.
I'm here to meet a woman, get to know each other and see where things develop naturally. I'm not looking for one-night stands or games. I'd rather build a genuine connection based on honesty, mutual respect, laughter and enjoying each other's company. If we can make each other laugh and have a conversation that lasts longer than the coffee, we're off to a good start! ☕
About Her Ideal Match
My ideal match is a woman who is genuine, kind, emotionally mature and comfortable in her own skin.
Someone with a sharp sense of humour, an independent mind and the ability to hold a meaningful conversation.
I value honesty, loyalty, consistency and mutual acceptance. I'd love to meet someone who can laugh with me, enjoy the simple things in life and let a connection develop naturally, without games or pressure.
Chemistry matters, but so does feeling comfortable enough to be completely yourself around each other.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa |
Location: |
Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa |
Gender: |
Female |
Age: |
55 |
Star Sign: |
Taurus |
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") |
Body Type: |
Average |
Looks: |
Above Average |
Hair Colour: |
Grey |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian |
Home Language: |
Ask me later |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
Relationship Status: |
Single |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term |
Have Children: |
No |
Want Children: |
No |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker |
Drinking: |
Regular Drinker |
Education: |
Bachelors degree |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Western Cape; Eastern Cape; Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age Range: |
40 - 65 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus; Cancer; Virgo; Libra; Capricorn; Aquarius | |
Height: |
155cm (5' 1.0") - 180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Black; Greying; Grey | |
Eye Colour: |
Any | |
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | |
Other Languages: |
Any | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | |
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Any | |
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
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